“It’s hard to put into words the impact that HFTS had on my life. I didn’t have much hope before pastoral counseling and the group. But during and certainly afterwards my hope was restored in His unconditional love for me. I’m thankful for you. –Jason from GA”

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A message from HFTS founder Jayson Graves:

You’ve landed. You’ve arrived at a site dedicated to Sexual Addiction Recovery and help for Unwanted Same Sex Attraction.

You’ve probably got a sick feeling in your stomach. Or you may be scared, lonely, and ashamed, feeling sure no one can help. Maybe you’ve hit rock bottom and you feel no one can understand.

From the pain in your heart and mind you may be screaming, “Can anybody help me? Is there a way out?”

Yes there is. There is hope.

There is hope for recovery. There is hope for growth. God can redeem your past and you can live a life of victory in the midst of and beyond your struggles. God can help you change your life and we’re here to help you with that.

How do I know? Because I’ve been there. I’ve felt your pain. But I’ve seen God do amazing things in my life. I’ve seen God do amazing things in the life of many others. If any of these categories apply to your situation, I invite you to give us a call or send an email & consider having us partner with you on your healing journey.

Thanks again for finding us! We specialize in two main issues: sexual addictions and unwanted same sex attractions. My team and I serve a local, national, and international clientele using an innovative, faith-based approach that can involve individual, couples, and/or group pastoral coaching, all over the telephone or private teleconference. We would be honored to serve you and hope to hear from you soon!

Jayson Graves, M.MFT, Sexual Addiction Specialist

Services focus on the following issues:


Recovery from Sexual Addictions including pornography, compulsive masturbation, sexual internet chat, & “adult” bookstores;

Addressing Unwanted Same-Sex Attractions, freedom from homosexual relationships & overcoming sexual attractions towards minors;


Recovery from sexual addiction, including internet pornography, and/or compulsive masturbation;

Shepherding healthy, appropriate sexual understanding and self-control;


Grieving your husband’s sexual addiction;

Facing codependency issues and setting effective boundaries;


Reclaiming your marriage through:

Improving Marital Intimacy;
Increasing Trust and Communication;


Learning to care for yourself, growing in your ability to love your same-sex attracted son or daughter.